I recently had a conversation with a guy friend where I explained how I think men work and he said I was wrong. I started to believe him for a sec but I’m right back to thinking I’m right.

From what I have gathered being single for 4.5 years, men don’t like me. Maybe they want to hook up. That seems to be the main goal most guys have. And, honestly, I have zero trouble finding a guy for that. I did not know this for my whole life but I guess I’m sort of attractive?

But as far as liking my personality and wanting to get to know me? Yeah, no. Haven’t found one of those yet. Lol.

Below is a list of things I think men do if they like you and want to get to know you, not just hook up. And since these things don’t happen for me often or when they do happen they just end, I feel I can confidently say: men don’t like me.

Things I think men do if they like you:

• Ask you out on a date, usually more than one
• Chase you a bit
• Reply to messages
• Ask questions about you
• Send memes or videos
• Tell you about themselves
• Maybe get you a gift?
• Public displays of affection
• Tell you they like you

I don’t have a lot more. Maybe I’ll update this if I think of anything. But I don’t care what my friend says. If a guy liked me he’d do this stuff. And this stuff doesn’t happen for me. I also deleted all the dating apps months ago so that doesn’t really help. But I’m tired of putting myself out there only to get rejected. So I’m on hiatus. (Somehow I’m still going on dates though. Lol.)

If you’re a guy and you disagree with me please comment. But tbh I really think I’m right.